wasteNot: hub-side deterministic block/tag of agreed patterns

For each wasteNot pattern with >=3 agreed verdicts (filed by monitor-llmmsgsrv-cc as child WIs), implement a deterministic hub rule at /send: tag or reject with the rule text, same shape as MSG-316 ack_rejected. Recipient-need patterns expected first: FYI-to-non-owner, status-carbon to non-PM, re-relay to already-reached recipient (see monitor memory pattern_relay_duplication).